To those of you who have never been in love

To those of you who have never been in love.
To those of you who want so badly to be in love.
To those of you who feel as if you will never be loved.
To those of you who have never been kissed.
To those of you who feel as if no one could love you.
Yes, this is for you.
This is for me.

I'm 21 years old. 21 as of September, 2017. I have never been kissed. I have never dated anyone. I have never had a boyfriend. I have never been romantically, truly, in love.
I want you to know that you are not alone in your loneliness.
You are not alone in your stark and silent singleness.
When the world seems to be in love, and everywhere you go you see pairs, know that you are not alone.
There are many who are experiencing or have experienced what you're going through.
They say that love will find you, yet here you are... Still waiting.
Yes, I feel your aching heart.
But I want you to know that you are whole by yourself.
You do not need a single person to complete you.
And I know that you might want what they have.
You have so much love to give.
But it is not yet your time.
And while it might be cliché, it's true that singleness can be a gift. Use it wisely.

Know now that you are loved and you are whole as you are.
Know that you are not alone.
Give away the love in your heart to the world around you. The family and friends and strangers in your life.
Strengthen the other relationships in your life. Work on yourself.
Patience, my love.
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